Wedding Ceremonies By Rev Rory Witham.
Rev Rory Witham is a ordained reverent of the ULC (Life church) and as such can carry out wedding ceremonies. The church is not tided to any religion and therefore the services are fully flexible to meet your requirements and theme with out objection. All thought the services, feel and style of the wedding ceremony are flexible they do need to meet with legal requirements for the place of marriage.
Two systems of marriage.
The simplist form of service would be a frech style of wedding, where you are formally married at a registry office with close family and then another service is performed for all your guests - essentaiy this means that your can be married anywhere and you will be married twice in one day. You can benefit for having a the best of both worlds and normally at lower costs. The other style of ceremony is detailed below.
While we do not fit you to a paticualr religion and the content of this page is made as a feneral guideline to your wedding service. The wedding services are idea for those who want a religious themed wedding or your own bespoke type of weding service - hymms can be sung, glasses broken and much more as we are not tied to limitations (aside those of the law).
We can create with our creative writing bespoke vows, sermons and speaches to meet your legal and personal requirements, its certainly the best of both worlds.
The legal requirements for such a service to take place.
Official Minster - Rev Rory Witham
Documents
Notice
Venue ( that is registered )
Both of you must have lived in a registration district in England or Wales for at least seven days immediately before giving notice at the register office. If you both live in the same district, you will each give notice at the same office. If you live in different registration districts, you will each give notice separately in your own area.
A notice of marriage is valid for twelve months. You may therefore not give notice of marriage to the Superintendent Registrar more than twelve months before the date of your wedding.
A notice of marriage is valid only for the venue named on the notice. Whereas it may be possible to alter the date of your marriage (provided it is before the expiry date), a change of location would require a fresh notice and fee.
After giving notice you must wait a further fifteen clear days before the marriage can take place (for example, if notice is given on 1st July, the marriage may take place on or after 17th July).
Both authorities must have been issued on or before the day of the marriage
Documentation required
You need to evidence to confirm that you satisfy the eligibility requirements of your:
- - Name
- - Age (the minimum legal age for getting married in England and Wales is 16 years of age but written consent may be required for anyone under 18 years)
- - Nationality (ideally in the form of your passport)
- - Is a British citizen
- - Is an EEA national
- - Has been given the right of abode in the UK
- - I s a member of visiting forces from NATO and Commonwealth countries
- - Is a diplomat that is not subject to immigration control
- - If you have been widowed, the death certificate of your former spouse
You will also be asked to provide evidence of your address and evidence of the ending of any previous marriage or civil partnership. See How to obtain a copy of a divorce or dissolution for more information
A notice of marriage?
It is a legal requirement to give notice of marriage and, once given, your notice of marriage is displayed on the notice board at the register office for a period of fifteen clear days. Your notice of marriage is valid for 12 months.
A notice of marriage is a legal document required by the Marriage Act 1949 and states for each person:
- - name and surname
- - age
- - condition
- - address
- - occupation
- - nationality
- - intended marriage venue
Religious ceremonies other than in the Church of England or Church in Wales
If you wish to marry by religious ceremony other than in the Church of England or Church in Wales, you should first arrange to see the person in charge of marriages at the building and discus this with myself in advance. However, the church or religious building in question must normally be in the registration district in which you or the other party live although many couples tend to get married else where that the areas in which they live. It will also be necessary for both of you to give formal notice of your marriage to the superintendent registrar of the district(s) where you live. A registrar/Reverent may also need to be booked from the register office in the district where the marriage is to take place in order to register the marriage.
Please note that for a religious marriage, other than in the Church of England, civil preliminaries must be completed as noted above.
To find venues
You can select this link which will provide you with registers wedding venues.
REGISTERED WEDDING VENUES (Gloucestershire venues listed lower on this page).
The service itself must contain certain legal formalities that you will find in the usual services for both church and civil ceremonies.
Every such marriage shall be solemnised—
(a) at the official house of the marriage officer, with open doors, between 8 am and 6 pm, in the presence of two or more witnesses;
(b) by the marriage officer or, if the parties so desire, by another person in his presence; and
(c) according to such form and ceremony as the parties see fit to adopt.
(3) Where (apart from this subsection) it would not be stated or otherwise indicated in the course of the ceremony adopted by the parties that neither of them knows of any lawful impediment to their marriage, then, in some part of the ceremony and in the presence of the marriage officer and witnesses, they shall each declare—
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‘I solemnly declare that I know not of any lawful impediment why I A.B. [or C.D.] may not be joined in matrimony to C.D. [or A.B.] .'
(4) Where (apart from this subsection) it would not be stated by each of the parties in the course of the ceremony adopted by them that he or she takes the other as wife or husband, then, in some part of the ceremony and in the presence of the marriage officer and witnesses, each of the parties shall say to the other—
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‘I call upon these persons here present to witness that I A.B. [or C.D.] take thee C.D. [or A.B.] to be my lawful wedded wife [ or husband]'. ”
Its is common practice to follow the wording of the act as such to form the wedding vows.
" I call upon these persons here present to witness that I do not know of any leagal impediment; that I (name) cannot lawfully take (name) as my lawfully wedded (husband/wife).
it is also required that I ask if any persons know why the couple cannot be joined.
While you do not have to use this contex for your wedding they MUST be contained
Samples
Your Marriage / Wedding certificate:

You will each be charged a fee of £30 when you give notice.
Plus
- a marriage at the Register Office will be £43.50
- a marriage at approved premises will incur a fee to the proprietors of the premises, and a fee for the attendance of the Reverent minister, which is variable depending on the day on which the ceremony takes place
- a marriage at a Place of Religious Worship will incur a fee to the Minister of the Building (variable); in addition, if a Reverent is required to register the marriage, a fee of £50.50 is payable in advance
- a marriage at a Church of England or Church in Wales does not generally involve the Register Office and enquiries regarding fees must be directed to the Minister of the church.
All fees except for weddings in approved premises are set by law. The fees for married in an approved premises are available from the register office.
Common-law marriage/ De facto Marriages
Offical/ None official weddings (common-law marriage/ De facto Marriages) may suit those who require the commitment form their partner but without the fuss of a full wedding service.
The essential distinctions of a common law marriage are:
- Common-law marriages are not licensed by government authorities, although they may be recorded in the public records of some governmental entities.
- Common-law marriages are not solemnized.
- Cohabitation alone does not create a common-law marriage; the couple must hold themselves out to the world as husband and wife; and
- There must be mutual consent of the parties to the relationship constituting a marriage
- Both parties must be of legal age to enter into a marriage or have parental consent to marry
- In some jurisdictions, a couple must have cohabited and held themselves out to the world as husband and wife for a minimum length of time for the marriage to be recognised as valid.
There is no such thing as "common-law divorce". Once a marriage is validly contracted, whether according to statute or according to common law, the marriage can only be dissolved by a legal proceeding in the pertinent trial court (usually family court or probate court).
Since the mid-1990s, the term "common-law marriage" has been used in parts of Europe and Canada to describe various types of domestic partnership between persons of the same sex as well as persons of the opposite sex.
Although these interpersonal statuses are often, as in Hungary, called "common-law marriage" they differ from true common-law marriage in that they are not legally recognized as "marriages" but are a parallel interpersonal status, known in most jurisdictions as "domestic partnership", "registered partnership", or "civil union".
De facto unities are complex and differ from place to place around the world. If you are traveling to the UK for this service please check your local laws and act for the infinate requirements, here are some basic guide lines:
a) The couple have been living in a conjugal relationship for at least 12 continuous months;
b) The couple are parents of a child by birth or adoption; or
c) One of the couple has custody and control of the child (or had custody and control immediately before the child turned 19 years of age) and the child is wholly dependent on that person for support.
Common Law marriage was by consent under Roman Law in the UK. "Common-law marriage" survives in England and Wales only in a few highly exceptional circumstances, where people who want to marry but are unable to do so any other way can simply declare that they are taking each other as husband and wife in front of witnesses.
In Scotland,
The Marriage (Scotland) Act 1939 provided that the 1st and 2nd forms of an Irregular marriage.
In 2006 "marriage by cohabitation with habit and repute" was also abolished in the Family Law (Scotland) Act 2006. Until that act had come into force, Scotland remained the only European jurisdiction never to have totally abolished the old style common-law marriage. For this law to apply, the minimum time the couple have lived together continuously had to have exceeded 20 days.
Approved marriage and civil partnership venues in Gloucestershire
The following venues are approved premises in England and Wales for marriages and civil partnerships. Please contact your chosen venue direct to check details and availability.
- Tel 01242 222 021Barcelo Cheltenham Park Hotel
Cirencester Road, Charlton Kings, Cheltenham, Gloucestershire , GL53 3AQ - Tel 01285 740561Barnsley House
Barnsley , Cirencester, Gloucestershire, GL7 5EE - Tel 01453 810332Berkeley Castle
Berkeley, Gloucestershire, GL13 9BQ - Tel 01285 740337Bibury Court Hotel
Bibury , Cirencester, Gloucestershire, GL7 5NT - Tel 01453 883 804Burleigh Court Hotel
Burleigh , Minchinhampton,Stroud, Gloucestershire, GL5 2PF - Tel 01666 890 391Calcot Manor Hotel
Calcot, Tetbury, Gloucestershire, GL8 8TJ - Tel 01386 593555Charingworth Manor Hotel
Charingworth, Chipping Campden, Gloucestershire, GL55 6NS - Tel 01452 519 988Cheltenham Chase Hotel
Shurdington Road, Brockworth, Gloucester, GL3 4PB - Tel 01242 573558Cheltenham Town Football Club
Whaddon Road, Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, GL52 5NA - Tel 01594 832320Clearwell Castle
Church Road, Clearwell, Gloucester, GL16 8LG - Tel 01386 840330Cotswold House Hotel
High Street, Chipping Camden, Gloucestershire, GL55 6AN - Tel 01285869550Cotswold Water Park - Four Pillars Hotel
Spine Road, South Cerney, Gloucestershire, GL7 5FP - Tel 01452 812160Cotswolds88 Hotel
Kemps Lane, Painswick,Stroud, Gloucestershire, GL6 6YB - Tel 01242 870900Cowley Manor
Cowley, Nr Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, GL53 9NL - Tel 01285 740035Cripps Barn
Fosse Cross Lane, Bibury, Gloucestershire, GL7 5ND - Tel 01242 545 454De La Bere Hotel
Southam, Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, GL52 4NH - Tel 01386 852711Dormy House Hotel
Willersey Hill, Broadway, Worcestershire, WR12 7LF - Tel 01386 881240Dumbleton Hall Hotel
Dumbleton, Evesham, Worcestershire, WR11 6TS - Tel 01453 833449Egypt Mill Hotel
Bath Road, Nailsworth, Gloucestershire, GL6 0AE - Tel 01594 810620Forest Hills Golf Club
Mile End Road, Coleford, Gloucestershire, GL17 6BY - Tel 01594 832583Forest of Dean Golf Club
Lords Hill, Coleford, Gloucestershire, GL16 8BE - Tel 01452 830354Fosse Manor Hotel
Fosseway, Stow-on-the-Wold, Gloucestershire, GL54 1JX - Tel 01452 730217Hatherley Manor Hotel
Down Hatherley Lane, Down Hatherley , Gloucestershire, GL2 9QA - Tel 01452 617412Hatton Court Hotel
Upton Hill, Upton St Leonards, Gloucester, GL4 8DE - Tel 01684 296200Hilton Puckrup Hall
Puckrup, Tewkesbury, Gloucestershire, GL20 6EL - Tel 01285 648730Le Spa Health & Fitness Club & Hotel
Stratton Place, Gloucester Road, Cirencester,Gloucester, GL7 2LA - Tel 01451 844130Lodge Park
The National Trust, Aldsworth, Gloucestershire, GL54 3PP - Tel 01451 820243Lords Of The Manor Hotel
Upper Slaughter, Bourton-on-the-Water, Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, GL54 2JD - Tel 01684 293224Lower Lode Inn
Forthampton, Gloucestershire, GL19 4RE - Tel 01451 820 456Lower Slaughter Manor
Lower Slaughter , Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, GL54 2HP - Tel 01242 256393Manor By the Lake
Hatherley Lane, Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, GL51 6PN - Tel 01452 813204Painswick Rococo Gardens
Painswick, Gloucester, GL6 6TH - Tel 01242 529533Prestbury House Hotel
The Burage , Prestbury, Gloucestershire, GL52 3DN - Tel 01452 614121Ramada Bowden Hall
Bondend Lane, Upton St Leonards, Gloucester, GL4 8ED - Tel 01452 525653Ramada Hotel and Resort
Robinswood Hill, Gloucester, GL4 6EA - Tel 01452 862506Royal George Hotel
Birdlip, Gloucester, GL4 8JH - Tel 01242 570901Seasons Conference & Events
Quat Goose Lane, Swindon Village, Cheltenham,Gloucestershire, GL51 9RX - Tel 01453 825155Stonehouse Court Hotel
Bristol Road, Stonehouse, Gloucestershire, GL10 3RA - Tel 01285 651761Stratton House Hotel
Gloucester Road, Cirencester, Gloucestershire, GL7 2LE - Tel 01453 753209Stroud Masonic Hall
12 The Hill, Merrywalks, Stroud, Gloucestershire, GL5 4ER - Tel 01242 602308Sudeley Castle
Winchcombe , Gloucestershire, GL54 5JD - Tel 01684 295405Tewkesbury Park Hotel
Lincoln Green Lane, Tewkesbury, Gloucestershire, GL20 2DN - Tel 01453 512920The Barn Function Centre
Berkeley Heath, Berkeley, Gloucestershire, GL13 9EW - Tel 01453 878 522The Bear Of Rodborough Hotel
Rodborough Common, Stroud, Gloucestershire, GL5 5DE - Tel 01452 713226The Cheltenham Regency Hotel
Gloucester Road, Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, GL51 0ST - Tel 01666 502272The Close Hotel
Long Street, Tetbury, Gloucestershire, GL8 8AQ - Tel 01285 650455The Corinium Rooms
Old Memorial Hospital, Sheep Street, Cirencester, GL7 1QW - Tel 01285 851806The Crown of Crucis
Ampney Crucis, Cirencester, Gloucestershire, GL7 5RS - Tel 01242 700 060The Daffodil
18-20 Suffolk Parade, Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, GL50 2AE - Tel 01452 790412The Dark Barn
Bridge Farm, Rudford, Gloucester, GL2 8DX - Tel 01684 274310The Fleet Inn
Twyning, Tewkesbury, Gloucestershire, GL20 6DG - Tel 01285 720721The Fossebridge Inn
Fossebridge, Cheltenham, Gloucstershire, GL54 3JS - Tel 01242 820547The Frogmill
Shipton Oliffe, Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, GL54 4HT - Tel 01451 830 344The Grapevine Hotel
Sheep Streeet, Stow-On-The-Wold, Gloucestershire, GL54 1AU - Tel 01666 502 475The Great Tythe Barn
Folly Farm, Long Newnton, Tetbury Gloucestershire, GL8 8XA - Tel 01242 862352The Greenway
Shurdington, Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, GL51 5UG - Tel 01666 880 233The Hare and Hounds Hotel
Westonbirt, Tetbury, Gloucestershire, GL8 8QL - Tel 01386 438257The Kings Arms
High Street, Mickleton, Gloucestershire, GL55 6RT - Tel 01453 861161/01452 740887The Kingscote Barn, Binley farm
Kingscote, Tetbury, Gloucestershire, GL8 8YE - Tel 01452 425272The Maitland Suite
Maitland House, Spa Road, Gloucester, GL1 1UY - Tel 01608 650501The Manor House Hotel
High Street, Moreton-In-Marsh, Gloucestershire, GL56 0LJ - Tel 01453 860 084The Matara Centre
Kingscote Park, Kingscote, Near Tetbury, Gloucestershire, GL8 8YA - Tel 01453 763394The Museum In The Park
Stratford Park, Stratford Road, Stroud, Gloucestershire, GL5 4AF - Tel 01367 252296The New Inn Hotel
Market Square, Lechlade, Gloucestershire, GL7 3AB - Tel 01452 522177The New Inn
16 Northgate Street, Gloucester, GL1 1SF - Tel 01386 840317The Noel Arms Hotel
High Street, Chipping Campden, Gloucestershire, GL55 6AT - Tel 01594 822113The Oaks
6, Belle Vue Centre, Cinderford, Gloucestershire, GL14 2AB - Tel 01608 651199The Old Council Chamber
Moreton Area Centre, High Street, Moreton-in-Marsh, Gloucestershire, GL56 0AZ - Tel 01453 766049The Old Victorian School
Parliament Street, Stroud, Gloucestershire, GL5 1DY - Tel 01242 523852The Pittville Pump Room
Pittville Park, Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, GL52 3JE - Tel 0870 400 8107The Queens Hotel
The Promenade, Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, GL50 1NN - Tel 01594 822607The Speech House
Coleford, Gloucestershire, GL16 7EL - Tel 01285 740695The Swan Hotel
Bibury , Gloucestershire, GL7 5NW - Tel 01242 232691The Thistle Hotel Cheltenham
Gloucester Road, Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, GL51 0TS - Tel 01285 770280The Tunnel House
Coates, Cirencester, Gloucestershire, GL7 6PN - Tel 01594 833666The Wyndham Arms Hotel
Clearwell, Coleford, Gloucestershire, GL15 8JT - Tel 01386 438429Three Ways House Hotel
Mickleton, Chipping Camden, Gloucestershire, GL55 6SB - Tel 01451 830257Unicorn Hotel
Sheep Street, Stow-On-The-Wold, Gloucestershire, GL54 1HQ - Tel 01451 822143Washbourne Court Hotel
Lower Slaughter , Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, GL54 2HS - Tel 01242 602366Wesley House
High Street, Winchcombe, Gloucestershire, GL54 5LJ - Tel 01993 830888Westcote Inn
Nether Westcote, Chipping Norton, Oxon, OX7 6SD - Tel 01666 880242Westonbirt School
Westonbirt, Tetbury, Gloucestershire, GL8 8QG - Tel 0792 204 1132Westonbirt The National Arboretum
Westonbirt Arboretum, Tetbury, Gloucestershire, GL8 8QS - Tel 01285750482Williamstrip Park
Coln St Aldwyns, Cirencester, Gloucestershire, GL7 5AT - Tel 01451 831936Wyck Hill House Hotel
Stow-On-The-Wold, Gloucestershire, GL54 1HY